I am super, incredibly soft hearted! I like myself and consider this to be a good trait, however it can sometimes be a burden in some aspects of life.
I allow people to walk all over me, I allow them to get away with murder and I also allow them to get to me in ways they shouldn’t.
I run away from confrontation and I shudder at the thought of sticking up for myself.
In the workplace, with friendships, even with ordinary people I don’t dare get on their bad side. This has caused many nights of irritation, it has also caused me to back down all too often.
I don’t want to be a negative person and I also don’t want to cause conflict where I don’t have to BUT the fact that I have no balls needs to change.
Lesson learnt: I won’t get very far in life by shying away or not sticking up for what I feel is right because most people won’t take me seriously. I am a big girl and shall act that way!
What have you learnt recently?